No, I don't.
I don't meet people because I don't like it, because I'm not a pro-domme or a BDSM escort and because I'm simply not interested in meeting subs online. It takes me a lot of time to trust someone from the net and I don't meet people I don't trust. Then of course, once I really trust someone, it could happen I decide to meet him but if that happens, it will be on my terms. The chances are really narrow that this ever happens.
If you ever meet me in a restaurant, in the street or eventually in a kinky event in London, you could have a chance to approach me and say hi but don't dream about a session because that will never happen.
What I like is to be a shadow in your life. It's controling your life and become your obcession. Meeting people just ruin my kink.
I'm not a pro-domme or an escort. I have a kink. Therefore, domination is not a business for me and I really don't do this for the profit or even for the money. I do it for my pleasure and because I enjoy to play with people.
I don't care how rich you are, I care about how obedient and amusing you can be.
I don't care about the amount of your salary. £100 or £10.000 means the same for me: It means to control you.
However, I love when my toys struggle and I will certainly take you to the edge of your posibilities just to make you squirm but I'm also reasonable and I considere myself as a benevolent dom, not a domme who cares about profit.
It all depends how you handle it.
If you hide, if you run away and choose not to be honest with me, you will regret it for the rest of your life because I will ruin your life by exposing all your dirty secrets in a way to really harm your life forever.
If you are honest and explain the situation, I can perfectly understand and adapt my request to your new situation. But remember, a problem in your life doesn't mean you are lucky and suddenly you are safe, not at all. It means I can be magnanimus and give you a chance to save your life. Therefore, you will have to work ten times harder to fix that problem, to find the money you need so I can be pleased. If you fail, you will face the consequances.
So simply be honest and tell me about your problems so I can find a way to help you by giving you a chance to remain safe.
It means I believe in a higher purpose and not only on the imediate kink.
A D/s relation is a very special relation where the dominant have a real responsability as the submissive is offering the power to the domminant.
Power is not something easy and the dominant have to use it in a good and positive way, not to destroy the person.
Too many "doms" in the community believe that being a dom is being selfish and use the submissive for their pleasure without taking into account the submissive life or psychology. Because of this, many submissives can live a real bad experience and end destroyed in a pshychological way. I condem this as I call this a psychological rape and no one deserve this.
A dominant, in my view need to keep in mind the bigger picture, the positive picture.
With kink, I like to be a positive influence for my subs in the long run.
I can help the to improve their helth by forcing them to lose some weight or have a beter hygiene. I can push them to get a new and better job or get the qualifications needed to be able to get a better job. It doesn't matter than I will get the extra money the sub will be making in his new job, but at least his life will have a higher purpose.
Also, being a benevolent domme means that I trully care about the people I play with and, because of this, I can understand when they face a problem for example. When this happens, I can perfectly adapt my approach so I can help my sub.
No I don't. I don't meet people I meet online.
If that's your kink there are many other girls in London who will be happy to meet you to take your enveloppe full of cash. I did it once and it made me feel really bad so I won't do it again.
If you want to know what happened that day and why I won't do it again no matter what you can say or offer, read my book HER... and you will find the story there.
No, and you can't even ask.
You came here and you want to serve me, therefore you can only do that under MY rules.
I don't provide any kind of verification.
Why? First because I'm not a pro-domme or an escort and I'm not proposing ANY SERVICE. I have a kink and I consider only people who understand, accept and want that kink.
Second, because you don't deserve it. Great you want to serve who you chose and you want to be sure the person is who she says she is before start anything. It's your right yes. But it's my right to tell you to search for someone else too. My subs get the pictures, audios, videos I want and only when I want, not when they want. They need to deserve them.
Third: Because I find all kind of verifications completely stupid as it proves nothing. Today, when you have a little brain you can fake everything so there is no point to start something with a suspicion.
If you like me for what I am, If you like me for my kinks, if you like me for my mind, my intelligence and my twisted perversions, then we can talk. If you need pictures or whatsoever and assurances, then you are not a right fit for me and it's better you find someone else because we won't be a match.
Of course. I'm a bitch but I'm also kind and human. You can perfectly send me a message and I will reply if you are polite, if you make an effort when writing and if you send me a genuine message telling me what you want and why me.
If you send me a stupid and useless "hi, how are you" I will ignore you. If you send me a message saying I'm amazing and that's it, I will ignore you because it's boring and I already know I am.
But if you send an honest message and make some efforts, you will get a reply.
Send the money yes, but don't expect me to come.
You can offer me the best vacations ever in the most amazing and expensive place in the word with tons of dimonds as a gift, my answer will be the same: don't dream.
I don't believe in words. Start by sending me a normal tribute and prey to be accepted. Then spend the time needed to build a relation and showing me the amazing sub you are. Please me, spoil me, and then ... maybe one day, you will be able to convince me to accept your trip but it will be on MY TERMS, not yours.
I can't answer about my limits for real because I'm sure I don't know many of them. What I can tell you is what I'm not willing to do with people online.
1- I don't meet people
2- I don't do "requests"
3- I don't do "Instant-Domination" because I find that extramely boring and frustrating
4- I don't allow subs to chery pick what they want to to come up with rules.
My taboos .... well, same, I don't really know.
I'm someone really open mind and I accept people as they are. I might not like something but it doesn't mean I don't respect the person who likes that or that it's a taboo. It's just something who is not for me, probably because I find it boring or because I don't see the kink for me.
However, I will say that I put a limit in what's "legal" after excluding what I really love like blackmails. That's a kind of grey area. It's not legal but here it is because it's consensual as you are in my website looking to be blackmailed and you requested it.
I'm not interested. I don't have a business, I have a kink.
I don't provide services, I don't sell anything so this is not a business.
Regarding the income I can make, it's what I call "pocket money". I have enough money to have a confortable life and I don't need subs for that thanks god. Findom is simple my pleasure. Some people like to take dance classes, others play tennis, I play with people and love to make them squirm when they feel their wallets hurt. Everyone have a hobby right? :-)
It's impossible to say but in the best case scenario, months.
Being my sub, even being an amazing sub is not a guaranty we will ever meet. It can happen and surely it will be when you are not expecting it but I will never make false promises because meeting people is something I don't like as it ruins my kink.
If you read my book, you will read about a sub I met when he was not expecting it and all his story. I went to Berlin to meet him so yes, this could happen again of course but I will need to feel the need to meet the person before I can even consider the idea of meeting him.
It's very simple.
Step 1 - You need to buy and then fill my Slavery Application.
Go to the page SERVE ME and at the bottom, you have the button to buy my application for £10.
Step 2 - in your application, select ADOPT MY BILLS and then choose the one you want to adopt or, preferably, all those you want to adopt. Why sticking to just one don;t you think? ;-)
Step 3 - Submit your application and pay your first tribute. Yes, it's mandatory as it is for me the only way to know you are serious and not a time waster like 80% of the horny boys landing on my website.
Step 4 - Wait for me to review your application and decide if I allow you to adopt the bills you want. If I do so, you will receive shortly an email from me.
Step 5 - Use the link I will provide you by email to make your PayPal payment. It will be a subscription who will run automatically so you won't need to worry.
Step 6 - Feel how happy you are when you spoil me. That's the sign you should do it more often.